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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 17:53

How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How do I change a truck’s engine oil?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why do almost all vertebrates have tails, but not apes and frogs?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What are some signs he is deeply in love with you?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Is it ok for someone to crossdress in public?

Making more friends is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Does not procrastinate.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Who was the guy that had sex with the AIDS monkey?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What type of narcissist cheats more and gets pleasure out of hurting you, even if they're married?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why do Christians think voting for Trump is any better than voting for Kamala Harris?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Are you afraid to get married and why?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What is the nastiest thing you had your wife do and she loved it?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

That's it for today.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How big is the French Army?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What is one fantasy you have never told anyone about but really want to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Ask yourself:

What I need from you?

How does gut health affect mental well-being?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What makes Nigerian scammers skilled at impersonating people? Is their success a result of intelligence or other factors?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What a list actors/ actresses are notorious for being jerks in real life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?